Makalata ambiri a makolo amafunsa kuti anyamata awo amakonda kusewera ndi zoseweretsa pamwambo, koma anyamata ambiri amakonda kusewera ndi magalimoto a Toy kapena Nthumba. Kodi izi ndizabwino?
M'malo mwake, chaka chilichonse, ambuye amadola amapeza mafunso okhudza nkhawa ngati amenewa. Kuphatikiza pa kupempha ana awo aamuna omwe amakonda kusewera ndi zoseweretsa ndi zidole zawo, nawonso amafunsa ana awo akazi omwe amakonda kusewera ndi mfuti za chidole ndi mfuti za chidole, makamaka, izi ndizabwino kwambiri. Osapanga mkangano!
M'malingaliro anu, zoseweretsa zokongola monga zidole ndi zolaula zopondera zimangokhala kwa atsikana, pomwe anyamata amakonda zoseweretsa zolimba monga mitundu yagalimoto. Nthawi yomweyo, zoseweretsa za pinki nthawi zambiri zimakhala zosangalatsa za atsikana, pomwe zoseweretsa zamtambo nthawi zambiri za anyamata, etc. pomaliza, kodi zoseweretsa za ana zimakhudza jenda?
Cholakwika, cholakwika! M'malo mwake, kwa ana asanakwanitse zaka zitatu, zoseweretsa zawo ndizolowerera ndale! Ana omwe ali aang'ono kwambiri samamvetsetsa bwino za jenda. M'dziko lawo, pali chitsimikizo chimodzi chongoweruza zoseweretsa - ndiye kuti, zosangalatsa!
Ngati makolo akulondola msanga nthawi imeneyi, zingapweteke chifukwa cha mwana. Mwana akakhala ndi zaka pafupifupi zitatu, anawo ayamba kumvetsetsa pakati pa amuna ndi akazi, koma izi sizitanthauza kuti anyamata sangathe kusewera ndi zidole ndipo atsikana sangathe kusewera ndi magalimoto! "Zosangalatsa" ndi "zotetezeka" zidalidi njira yathu yolondola yosenda zoseweretsa.
Kodi mukufuna kuloza zoseweretsa? Zachidziwikire, koma kwa ana, zoseweretsa zimangofunika kugawidwa: mipira, magalimoto, zidole ndi magulu ena kuti athandize ana kumvetsetsa bwino za dziko lapansi. Osasamala kwambiri chikondi cha ana amitundu yosiyanasiyana ya zoseweretsa zoseweretsa!
Pafupifupi, zoseweretsa ndizosagwirizana, ndipo sitingathe kuweruza zoseweretsa malinga ndi zikhalidwe za anthu achikulire! Pomaliza, chidole chitsiritso chimakusangalatsani inu nonse chisangalalo.
Post Nthawi: Jan-13-2023